Adventures

So this summer, spontaneity has been my thing. I decide to drive a few hours just to go to a mall or drive a few hours to see my love interest. Deciding your adventures at the moment and just getting up and doing them is so much more fun than things that are planned out. Plans don’t work out all of the time and  the spontaneous adventures always do!

Life is so  much more exciting that way!

imperfections

I believe that imperfection is beauty.

Nobody is perfect. We may think that some women or men are close to perfect.. but that isn’t what we should be thinking. I am guilty of comparing myself to other beautiful young women out there. I think ‘wow I wish I had her skin.’ or ‘If I was 10 lbs skinnier I could look like her.’

We need to love ourselves in order to be happy with our inner self and our life. If you want to lose weight or wear makeup or go out and buy a new wardrobe. Do it. But do it for yourself because we should only live to please ourselves and not others. Don’t go out and buy a short dress or skirt to impress a boy. If you want to buy that short skirt, wear it with class and respect yourself.

Your imperfections are what make you beautiful. You are beautiful in your own way. The people out there who see you for who you are, are the people you want to keep in your life.

Sometimes life isn’t kind. Sometimes it is so hard. Sometimes it feels like it will never get better. The highs aren’t high enough and the lows are so low, you are drowning and cant breathe any longer. But you cant give up because it does get better. It gets a hell of a lot better. People betray you. They leave their mark on you and it is up to you to take that and make it change you for the better. Things happen in life that you cant control. We make mistakes. I make mistakes.

I had to make the biggest decision I will ever have to make in my life. I am young woman and this was the hardest thing I ever had to got through and I still struggle with what I did in January. It has changed me. It’s changed how I feel about myself and my life. I am imperfect.

Love who you are and don’t let people impact you and your life in a negative way. Learn from your mistakes and others mistakes as well. Life doesn’t have to be hard.Your imperfections make you who you are. Embrace them.

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